“My Do” – My Philosophy of Life in Two Words
Recently my two year old daughter entered this wonderful developmental phase where she wants to do everything by herself. Whether it’s putting on her shoes, brushing her teeth, buckling her seatbelt, or even changing her diaper, she simply must do it (or try to do it) on her own.
Now this is certainly normal and unsurprising. But what startled me was how she chose to communicate this desire for independence. Two simple words: “My do.” Its amazing how a toddler’s poor grammar can reveal the heart of the matter. The focus is on her. She wants to own the action; daddy or mommy are not needed.
The unfortunate thing in this cute scenario is that the phrase translates quite nicely to similar situations in my own life. When it comes to success at work, I want it to be “my do,” not God’s. If I’m struggling to figure out a relational problem, God is not needed, it’s “my do.” The list could go on.
Such realizations should spark one important question, namely, why is God suddenly out of the equation? Do I want the satisfaction of doing something on my own. Do I want the credit and the glory? Am I tired of having to ask for help and rely on someone else? Do I distrust Him and His provision for me? Am I afraid that if I call out for Jesus, He won’t answer? Those are tough questions and answers may not come quickly, but I do know one thing. I hope to keep learning valuable lessons from my little girl!